4/22/12

I love toddlers!

Yeap, I do.  They're fun and funny and mischevious and even though it can be...well...maddening, the good far outweighs the bad (for me, anyway).  Infants, however - ugh!  HATE IT!  Drooling blobs that can do NOTHING for themselves but shit and cry, and they do lots of it.  There wasn't a single rewarding day for me until she began to crawl at 8 months.  Ironically, I'd LOVE another one and with 11 on ice, I could but....c'mon.  I'm 45 now and she took enough of a physical toll on my body (c-section healed after the sponge was surgically removed, of course).  And then there's the childcare costs.  If I were even 40, I'd do it again.  Alas, my little lady is likely it for me - but I can so feel the pull for another.  :)  I've kept up with you all, stalking blogs, cheering and even shedding some tears.  I really feel as though there was a sisterhood between us ladies throughout our different paths and I still hold it close to me and think of you all so very often.

There's so much to say but for now, I'll leave you with pictures of my beautiful little lady - 16 months old.  The love of my life.  And wish you all continued success and happiness and, yes, I'll still be looking in on you all.

(Images removed)


11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sky! So happy to see your post-- have checked in every so often and wondered how you were doing.

I hear you on the pull for another-- but I'm almost 44 with no others on ice from our CCRM round (my DD is 18 mos now). And boy do I hear you on the toll on the body, finances etc.

Anyway, awesome to know you and LO are doing well :-)

Connie
sp08 from IVFC

MyTwoLines said...

Thanks for the update! Toddlers are lots of fun but boy do they keep me on the run :)
Love that last photo the most, as I'm assuming that is you :)

Sky said...

Yeap, it's me. :)

Connie: where can I find you? Do you have a blog? You're always so sweet and kind commenting.

MyTwoLines: Love, love, love your beautiful babies - they're just so delicious. Thrilled for you!

Lorraine said...

So nice to see an update! I keep thinking I should do it too...

I agree that toddler is when it starts to get good. I always hated it when strangers would tell me to "enjoy it now, they;re only babies for a little while..." I remember thinking, if this is the best it's ever going to be then I am screwed!

Toddlers great, and it keeps getting better. Even with a 13 year old, it is mostly better every year. Yeah, a few eye rolls here and there, but for the most part it's ALL better than those infant months.

Keep in touch!

Sara said...

Hi, Sky! I've been a lurker for years, and followed your journey. She is adorable!! Have you thought of embryo adoption? We did that with our remaining embryos and it was a very rewarding thing.

Sky said...

Hi Sara - you don't appear to have your own blog so I'm hoping you check back here for my response. Not only have I thought of embryo adoption, I am completely open to it and have always wanted to. I have 11 blastocysts left and I would love for some of them to be used.

Sky said...

Hi Sara - you don't appear to have your own blog so I'm hoping you check back here for my response. Not only have I thought of embryo adoption, I am completely open to it and have always wanted to. I have 11 blastocysts left and I would love for some of them to be used.

Rebecca said...

She's beautiful! I'm so glad you're enjoying her now.

Me said...

Thank you for the pics! And while I totally adore itty bitty babies, I do agree that toddlers are the bomb diggity! <3

Phoebe said...

Sweet photos! Lovely little girl. Wishing you all the best!

Anonymous said...

Hi Sky,

Aww...

Sorry I didn't respond earlier, work got crazy busy and I'm just now checking into the blogosphere again (seriously, wtf right?!-- guess I have less time now w a baby ;-).

I unfortunately don't have a blog and don't go on IVFC anymore (insert sad face here, kinda), but please feel free to reach me at connie_chen_personal@yahoo

Loving the more recent pics too!

Connie
sp08/IVFC