8/17/09

It's over

Became extremely sick and I knew something was terribly wrong.

Can't go into details. Please, no pity for me - I couldn't take it right now. I have no idea what the future holds at this point and it may be just me and the furbabies and that's going to have to be okay.

Wishing you all the best and that your dreams unfold exactly as you wish them to. They can.

50 comments:

onwardandsideways said...

Okay, no pity, but please write to me at some point, or post and let me/us know how you are doing.

FUCK.

Sprogblogger said...

Ok, no pity, but you're in my thoughts. There's nothing good to say, nothing is comforting at a time like this. I just wanted to remind you that a lot of us have been - or currently are - where you are, and we're thinking about you and wishing we could DO something to help. Be gentle with yourself.

Riley said...

I'm not pitying you either - I'm just pissed! I can't believe this. Why can't we ever catch a freakin' break? I hated seeing this post. You are in my thoughts. And I know you don't want to hear it right now, but I am so, so sorry - I just had to say that.

Jill M. said...

No pity, just a huge hug to say that I care and hope you are ok.

Eb said...

I'll be here when you are ready. Until then, I will be thinking of you

kayjay said...

No pity - just a hug.

gettingtophoebe said...

big hugs and thoughts.

Leah said...

No pity, just a big, warm hug.

Lost in Space said...

I don't even know what to say, Sky. Pissed does not even begin to touch it. Go wherever you need to go and do whatever you need to do and know that we are always here for you with open arms. Hugs and gentle thoughts, sweet friend.

Nikki said...

No pity from me either - but just lots of hugs. Know that we love you and care for you.

(((HUGS)))

Sue said...

Crap. I'm flat-out shocked. Sending hugs. Please update us when you can.

Ree said...

Just a hug and love sent out to you, I am so sorry honey!

Polly Gamwich said...

This is shocking and makes us all angry on your behalf.

All I want to share are some big hugs ...

Miss Tori said...

Come over here and drink this martini while I go bitch slap someone to make you feel better. Who would be first in your line for me to slap?

I'm sending you gentle hugs, my friend. Shit girl! IF SUCKS!

Lorraine said...

Oh, crap. Even in a few sentences I can tell how much this has slammed you. And all I can say is that pity has nothing to do with any of it - you have my sympathy, my understanding, my best wishes and my kindest thoughts.

Take time for whatever you need, and let us know how you are when you're ready.

AshPash said...

Update when you can. Crappy news indeed.

Me said...

OH NO!

There is a difference between pity and empathy. And people deserve empathy when bad things happen to them.

Kami said...

I am with Me

I am also shocked and angry. There are options, my friend. Now is the time to grieve.

I hope you will keep us posted. I was worried when you hadn't posted in so long.

I am thinking of you.

Rebecca said...

No pity, but lots of empathy. And lots of hugs.

Phoebe said...

No pity. Just sitting with you here crying. If I could hold your hand and wipe your tears, I would.

Beautiful Mess said...

*here from Phoebe's blog*

Sending you lots of love and strength.
*HUGS*

T-Mommy said...

I have been lurking for a while now and I have NO words, just a BIG HUG to you!

Just know that we are all here for you ;)

DAVs said...

OK, so not pity, but just know that my heart goes out to you.

And not that you care one iota about this right now but somehow you got deleted off my blogroll ACCIDENTALLY (so did a couple of other people) and I am really sorry about that too.

BIG HUGE HUGS.

Pie said...

It sucks. No pity, but I am sorry you must go thru this. It sucks.

Hope said...

No pity just here from Phoebe's blog to say this totally sucks and I am sorry you have to endure this

Kate said...

I came by the other day and did not know what to say that would not sound like pity- I get that you can't cope with that right now, so I left without saying anything.
But today I just needed to write to say I am sorry, and i hope that counts more as sympathy.
and to say I wish it were different would be an understatement, I am not sure how any of us make it through these losses, especially after true and honest hope kicks in.

thinking of you,
Kate

loribeth said...

Here from LFCA, & sending you some hugs...

nh said...

No pity - just a hug, and the idea that lots of us all sitting alongside you.

HereWeGoAJen said...

It sucks. I'll be thinking of you.

Baby Smiling In Back Seat said...

Here from LFCA...

The worst thing anyone said to me after my first miscarriage was a friend who said, "It's not that I pity you, but..."

I'm very sorry that this has happened to you.

Take care.

Pepper said...

Here from LFCA. I am so very sorry you're going through this. I wish I had better words to offer, but I know there aren't any. Wishing you peace and healing.

Anonymous said...

no words. just know that you are being viturally hugged and supported by so many.

no one deserves this. it sucks.

~jd

Marie W said...
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Marie W said...

I don't pity you. I can relate. I know exactly how you are feeling. I have recently had my second loss. I am so sorry that you had to go through this. Sending you hugs from Florida. Take as much time as you need to grieve.
Marie from LFCA

Aunt Becky said...

Sending you love and light.

Eve said...

Over from LFCA, no pity, but extreme sadness for your loss. Please take comfort in all of these women who care so much for you.

Anonymous said...

((HUGS))

Jem said...

Sending you lots of positive thoughts.
Jem

Anonymous said...

Here from LFCA. Just wanted to tell you you are not alone. Thinking of you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Cara said...

Here from LFCA. Angry and sad for you.

((hugs))

namaste said...

Here from LFCA. No pity, just hugs and acknowledgement of how sad this is. Not fair, not fair, not fair.

BB said...

A warm hug your way!

~LFCA

Fran said...

Over from LFCA where I discovered my loss news was also posted. No pity at all, in fact only much love in your direction I know you'll get through this. I'm here whenever the time will be right. Fran

Miss Tori said...

Hi Sky,

I thought I'd drop you a line to send you some more hugs. I'm hoping you are feeling physically better, as I know that emotionally it will be a while before the tunnel even emerges, much less the light at the end of it.

Take care of yourself and post when you feel up to it.

Much love,
Tori

onwardandsideways said...

Stopping by to say I'm thinking 'boutcha. {hug}

kayjay said...

I thought about you today as I think about all of my bloggy friends often. Sending you a big huge hug and a box of your favourite treats.

DE Mommy said...

(((hugs)))

Sue said...

I was just thinking about you too...and thought I'd leave you a comment. I hope you are doing alright. You are strong woman (IF weeds out those who aren't!) and will get through this. Please update when you can. We are all worried...

Lorraine said...

Been thinking about you, dear. I hope you're doing better, although I know that's all very relative. You're in my thoughts.

Yo-yo Mama said...

Pity is for the weak. You are NOT weak. We are strong in our numbers and our hearts.